Mental Dominance & Insecurities

Ive started to notice, people don't realize, we still have roots that connect us to dominate over each other.

People do it constantly, and sometimes people reveal insecurities, or are effected by their own, and don't even know it.

Like saying "Hi" and waving to someone you don't know, they don't understand, but YOU do, i understand that expressing peoples insecurities makes them think you must know the area your in, and are more dominant over it.

In that type of situation a person will pause, then smile trying to be friendly, but inside their mind thinks you, or I that just waved for no apparent reason is far more dominant because you, or I have made them feel week, confused, or afraid, through their insecurities.

Its a constant mind game, people will actually develop an insecurity that sounds ridiculous, but most people have it.

But, playing off of peoples insecurities doesn't always result in dominance over someone else.

For instance, the fear, or insecurity of mentally retarded or handicapped people, some people don't want to get close to them or talk with them because of a fear of them "rubbing off" some problem from them to that person. Or people that will stay away from other people who are apparently "crazy", because they fear the mental issues they have might come to be there own.

Lets say, i go to a public place, grip a bent spoon, and mutter "Did you here..." Huh" "Did" "No", Bad fuzzy kitty good" "Gremlins! on the plane, on the plane".

Do you think people would see what I'm doing? or try to see whats wrong? or even sit next to me on a bench?
The answer is yes, people would see what I'm doing. Only one or 2 out of, uh, a mall on a Saturday would try to see whats wrong. And nobody would be near me.

Although many of someones insecurities can dominate over someone.
One way that i have proved dominance over someone, well, mentally of course, is in front of a Starbucks, as someone passed i said "Hey, Hows it going?"(in a loud outgoing voice) *Pause* *a smile* "Fine, you?" "Great, man"

I then asked for a dollar because i was short one, he, without hesitance, handed me one VERY fast, without question.

What happened is I did something that made him feel insecure, not acting too "weird", but outgoing, made him feel as if his surroundings were keeping him from moving, until he answered, trying to be friendly. In his head his mind, unknown to him, thought of me as a superior, and of course, unquestioningly, unhesitatingly, handed me what i had asked.

Well, this can only be used to such an extent, if i were to ask him, "Can i have your shoes?", he would of, unsurprisingly to me, said no. But! saying no would still be hesitated, because his mind controls his body from fighting a "law" so to speak.

In other ways, someone could argue that this same thing would happen under pressure, but again, pressure is created by insecurities, and vise verse.

Like walking into an unknown "biker bar", yeah, that fear, is an insecurity, and can be fought if you know how to use someone else's insecurities against them, and how to control your own, and learning, most are in your head...

Only someone who realizes this, cannot be affected by someone using their insecurities.

uh...

If the truth is ridiculous, stupid, makes people laugh, say it. And laugh back with intent to blow smoke in their face...

1st Post...

I'm always creating random sayings, things that sit on my mind that i apply to everyday life, untill another comes to me... not as such of quotes... so, to start out.

One reason i started a blog, to keep track of these.
Two recent ones;
If the crow crosses the road for the chicken, does the chicken learn anything?

People want what they dont have... Then people who have all want nothing?